given someone a tee-shirt to find it acting as a cover for an old suitcase in the storeroom?
given presents to someone when he doesn't remember most of them?
found the things you given someone chucked somewhere in the wardrobe collecting dust and he won't even know why it's there when you ask him?
witness cousins of someone throwing things you've given him all around and aren't able to do anything, and smile and say: 'its ok' even if they spoil it and you feel really upset about it?
have you ever given someone a message pillow with a picture which means a lot to you to see it always on the ground looking like someone has used it to play soccer?
and the list goes on.. about the same 'someone'... ...